I find it funny sometimes how TV shows and movies misrepresent certain things to help fit them into the storyline or their timeline. Sometimes, though, I feel like those things have the potential of harming/hurting the less educated/knowledgable viewers or younger audience. You all heard about the fuss over Glee and the adoption storyline they were going to run. From what I remember, they were going to have Quinn give her baby up for adoption and then later change her mind and take the baby back or something along those lines. The adoption activists got a wind of it and rightfully made it a big deal asking the studio to change their storyline. Whatever the real story was there, it is not right to give people an impression that couldn't be further from the truth ( like that you can give your baby up for adoption and then months/years later change your mind and take it back). Because while most people tend to research their options, others ( especially young and inexperienced) can be too overwhelmed by the prospect of what they are about to do and simply rely on misconceptions they've picked up on TV. So the other day I was watching last season's episode of Parenthood where Julia and her hubby were trying to conceive and there was a conversation between her and Sarah about "how long it has taken them to conceive and that surely there was a problem with one of them, since it has been a WHOLE 4 months and nothing". I mean, seriously? A WHOLE 4 MONTHS???? Any book or doctor will tell you that it takes an average healthy couple 4-6 months to conceive, with some taking 1 year BEFORE there's a need to worry about infertility. Anyone who doesn't know that going into TTC is either not ready to have a baby, because obviously they didn't prepare properly, OR is most likely going to be in a world of hurt if it takes them a few months longer than expected. Now, I know you might say that it took us 1 month to conceive, so I have no right to say anything(which would be rude, btw), BUT we did spend a whole year preparing for that first month of TTC (reading books, changing eating habits, exercising, not smoking, not drinking, doing tests, taking care of health problems, doing dental work, taking prenatals etc), doing more than most people do while TTCing, so who knows how long it would have taken us to conceive, had we started the second the decision was made? And aside from that, I was going into it fully expecting it to take 4-6 months or more. So while the show's screw up was a minor one, I think it's slightly unfair to those who have been trying for a few months or longer and creates misconceptions for those who aren't having kids yet. The other thing that made me chuckle on the show is how Julia was holding off her horny husband for 48 hours so that he's "save up his sperm" until the day of ovulation. There are multiple studies which show that waiting to have sex to increase sperm count actually lowers your chances of conception in a man with normal sperm counts, because that means you have less sex ( for men with low sperm counts it has shown to work if you time it right). And then finally, waiting until she ovulates? Really? If you have sex ON the day of ovulation, your chances of conception are actually much lower (5% i think- don't quote me on that one), than having sex a day or two PRIOR to ovulation (12-15% chance of conception, again I'm just remembering from the top of my head). So it's all about depositing "the goods" in a timely and continuous manner until you hear "The eagle has landed!" I just find it funny, because I remember before we decided to have a baby, I was one of those people who thought that it's better to wait a few days before having sex because he'll have more swimmers. I bet I got it from some TV show 🙂 haha
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