So look forward to Multilingual Upbringing Part II if you have something to contribute.
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I’m also raising my son bilingual (German/English) and when he will go to school I’m hoping to find a Spanish immersion school for him. I LOVE languages..studied Spanish, German, Swedish, Norwegian, Bosnian, etc. I was a Linguistics major in college and taught ESL…I’m horrible at math, but languages are easy for me!
I think this is an awesome idea! Alexis is so lucky to be getting exposure to different languages at home from the beginning!
Oh wow, my 5 month old is also named Alexis. She is being raised in a tri-lingual home – I speak to her in Croatian exclusively, my husband in English and nanny in Spanish. I am fully aware that it will take longer for her to actually start speaking, but once she does she will be speaking 3 languages. There is nothing better than her knowing all parts of her heritage, and language is a great way to do that.
That’s out plan too. Me- exclusively Russian, hubby- exclusively English and then both of us Spanish on the weekends. I am incredibly overwhelmed by that idea though. I know it’s the best way but it’s going to be so hard for me. Please come back for the 2nd part of the post, I really will need your experience in that!!!!
I’m a ghost follower … this is the first time I post a comment, and now with my newest blog! hahaha
Anyway… I thought I should comment because this is a hot topic here at home too. I’m from Norway and when I was 20 My family moved to Miami and now I’m living with my husband in Pensacola. We are having a girl too and I’m also 25 weeks pregnant!! I was thinking about speak exclusively norwegian with her and my husband exclusively English,but I don’t know if this could be right,you know… I’m afraid that she would mix everything and don’t have a great accent you know…
BTW I loved your blog,my friend just sent me and it’s really great! Can’t wait for part 2!
I read a few books on multilingual upbringing and there are definite way of doing things ( OPOL- one parent one language is one of them). I’ll be writing about all that in detail. Despite having read the books and knowing the concept of how multilingual upbringing works, I am still very intimidated by the prospect.
Btw, children can handle up to 4 languages from birth without mixing them, so you should not worry about that. Usually bilinguals start speaking later but they know a lot more words in two languages combined than monolinguals. And she won’t have an accent- most likely what’s going to happen is she’s going to refuse speaking Norwegian with you, because it’s the not the “cool language” that all kids speak. So her english will be perfect, don’t even worry about that. It’s the other language that concerns me personally…
But I’ll write more about that.
Going over to your new blog to read and subscribe!
Elle do you have a blog? If so I’d LOVE to read it 🙂 I grew up in Sweden and love reading blogs from fellow scandinavians! My dad and brother are currently living and working in Stord Norway- hopefully I will get there next summer to visit.
This is going to be so great for Alexis, Elena! I’ve read that the part of your brain that picks up on languages slows down in developing after the age of 5 or so, so it’ll be so great to get that linguistic foundation set.
I know now later on in life, I’m regretting not paying closer attention to my parents and grandparents speaking German.
It’s even more than that, Jess! The baby loses the ability to pick up different language sounds at 6 months of age. And then the ability to learn a language with ease at 5 years of age. So it’s incredibly important for us to have a plan now.
I find it funny how we always regret not paying enough attention to languages, but as kids we found it bothersome and lame.
Hallo 🙂
I’m from Germany and moved to the States almost 7 years ago. I loved that we had to learn two other languages in school as well (although not as early as you did) and am very glad now that I stuck with English 😉
We have 3 daughters and are raising them bilingual. Although my husband understands German and can speak it fairly well we decided that I exclusively speak German with them while he exclusively speaks English with them. It works really well for us 🙂
Can’t wait to hear your plan!
Ich wünsche euch ein schönes Wochenende:-)
Jeane
Jeane, I’ll be very interested to hear your experience and opinion on the matter. We’ll be doing OPOL method too, but I am just really intimidated by having to speak exclusively Russian. We’ll talk more on the 2nd part of the post.
Have a good weekend too! 🙂 Had to google “wochenende” ( though looking at it now- if i was a bit more attentive i could have figured it out based on “ende” lol)
To say that I feel ya on this one would be an understatement. I don’t know if you read any of my bilingual posts, but I actually went to one of those special schools! I remember taking the test and it was RIDICULOUS. Anywho, I went to a school that specialized in foreign languages and math. By the time I moved to the US in 6th grade, I was doing math at about 10th grade level and was on to my second language. It’s crazy how different our school systems were bc I knew NOTHING about geography or history.
Anyways, we’re raising a bilingual baby! I actually found a school nearby that does lessons on weekends starting at 2 years old. I can’t wait to enroll Peanut.
In the meantime, I bought Russian books, CD’s and will let her watch Russian cartoons later on (we’re waiting till she’s 2). If you want to talk back and forth about strategies with raising a bilingual baby with American husbands, let me know. I would LOVE someone to shoot ideas with back and forth.
ps- Jon got these CD’s to learn Russian so he could also tlak to her and they were doing WONDERS for a while (he got too busy).
On a funny note, the way they ask you to remember KOROVA is by thinking of running a CAR OVER one!
I will definitely want to talk strategies with you. The whole idea is difficult for me because I am no longer comfortable speaking Russian. I can’t express myself fully in it. So it will a lot of work for me, especially if we do OPOL.
Let me know what you think when I post the 2nd part of the post and we’ll go from there.
I think if you have the ability to do this (which, sounds like you do) it is a great great thing you can do for your child. We, sadly, don’t speak 2 languages in our house, but if we did I think we would definitely raise our kids bilingual! Look forward to seeing how it goes for you!
I grew up in Sweden ( moved to the US when I was 12) and then two years ago my husband and our son, who was 1.5 at the time spent 7 months there studying abroad. When we came back I was DETERMINED to speak Swedish with him. I don’t do it all the time- but I’m determined to start before having his brother or sister in April- it’s amazing for their little minds. My son speaks english, but understands everything in Sweden and speaks it some. He also goes to Swedish class every other Sunday and its helped him. Also, watching Swedish movies is a big bonus- I don’t feel bad letting him watch some movies because it’s super beneficial to him to be hearing other kids converse completely in Swedish. And when he does speak Swedish- no accent! Win win.
From what I read, in order to have them speak a 2nd language freely, you need to do the OPOL method ( one parent one language), otherwise, they’ll be able to understand but not speak or read very well. Or at least put in about 3 hours of speaking that language a day. Which is sort of hard for msot people, because we’re so used to speaking English.
Alexis is so lucky to have you as her mommy and to have the opportunity to grow up in a home with multiple languages. I wish that I could speak another language so that I could teach my son! It sounds like you have a great plan and I can’t wait to read more about it in your future posts.
Lena, you forgot about another “foreign” language that you studied in school. I know you, Russian kids, hated Tatar classes. I can’t blame you – they are useless to you. However, if anybody chose to study Turkish (or any other Turkic language) later on in their lives, they would find it extremely similar and easy to pick up. I guess there was a benefit of being exposed to a language from a different language group:)
Awesome post!
Hahahahaha! no, I actually do remember about it, but I just couldn’t include it in the list because I literally know NOTHING! We were sailing through those classes just to pass because it was mandatory. Now you do have it as a language you can name as your 2nd primary, which is pretty cool!